When others are busy in following crowd, I decided to make my own way.
It’s been more than two decades, that I have been on this earth, and with time I have learnt so many things in life. And here are the little gist of my progress that how I become the Best Version of myself till now and still progressing and learning. It all started after my academic era…
When my other friends still get pocket money,
I get my salary.
When they understand career-building,
I understand responsibility.
When they start enjoying parties,
I choose to become book-warm.
When they decide to do travelling,
I choose to stay in kitchen.
When they love to be atheist,
I start trusting more in God.
When they are ready to do love marriages,
I still believe in arrange marriage.
When they like and share other’s quotes,
I start writing my own.
When they decide to explore the world,
I decide to explore myself.
When they get craziness,
I get maturity.
When they compete to each other,
I learn to stay calm and enjoy failures.
When they act egoist and arrogant,
I learn kindness and humbleness.
When they work on their outer beauty,
I work on my inner beauty.
When they shed fake tears to get sympathy,
I choose to wear smile all the time.
When they decide to give their precious time to their bf’s and gf’s,
I decide to spent some quality time with my parents.
When they wish to go on long drives with their loved ones,
I choose to learn driving and take myself on long drive.
When they choose to become selfish,
I choose to become selfless and kind.
When they get modernity in their thoughts and clothes,
I choose to stay connect to my roots and be traditional.
When they start wearing tight and short clothes to show their figure,
I start wearing oversize kurtas and T-shirts to hide my figure.
When they start find fame on social media,
I start finding peace in nature,
When they start taking everything for granted,
I take everything seriously.
When they start doing gossips about each other’s private life,
I choose not to interfering in anyone’s life.
When they call me and use me for their selfish reasons,
I choose to help them even knowing their intentions.
When they give more focus in pointing out bad things in everyone,
I choose to give compliments to everyone even for their small act of kindness.
When they ignore one other just to satisfy their ego and self-respect,
I chose to take initiative and break the ice even it brings question to my self-respect.
This is me!
And I am proud of myself.
 Always be Your Own Kind.
For every person who thinks,
you’re ”too quiet”
There’s one who thinks you’re an amazing listener.
For every person who thinks,
 you’re ”too clingy”
There’s is one who loves how much and how openly you care about others.
For every person who thinks,
 you’re ”too weird’
There’s one who admires how you dare to stand out from the crowd.
For every person who thinks,
 you’re ”too sensitive”
There’s one who respects you for being so in touch with your feelings.
For every person who thinks,Â
you’re ”too confident”
There’s one who thinks your self respect is an inspiration.
What’s negative trait in one person’s eyes might be exactly what someone else is looking for.
Vibes fluctuate, character does not.
Vibes, the trendy word of this modern world. You must be gone through these quotes on social media such as ‘Vibes never lie.’…..Â
‘Surround yourself with people who give you good vibes.’ and so on.Â
But, I no longer believe in these quotes because there are many people in your life who stay with you just because you gave them good vibes in the starting….and there are many more who will be with you till you will give them good vibes.
Once the vibes change, they will change.
But, the main thing is that there are times come in your life when you start getting negative vibes even from good people in your life.
Meanwhile, sometimes you also experience unexpectedly good vibes from wrong people as well.
In short , every person has good and bad side , in same way they have good and bad vibes that they exchange with others. We are so obsessed with these vibes that the moment we start feeling negative vibes from next person, we start thinking about cut-off and at the end, ignorance is the last option that we use /do with the people who don’t have same vibes like us.
But, we need to change this myth because in bad circumstances or in aggression, frustration, depression, nobody can give you good vibes even not you.Â
Don’t use vibes as parameter to judge someone so quickly.
The same person can give you different vibes in different perspectives, situations and scenarios. So, be patient, see their both colors and then make decision wisely whether you want to keep them in your life or not.
Always remember,Â
 “Vibes fluctuate ,character does not.”
Be kind, even at the cost of self-respect.
“Sometimes, I don’t believe in self respect because….
If your self respect stops you to help your enemies,
If it stops you to admire your hater’s good deeds,
If it stops you to respect other’s right opinion,
If it stops you to forgive thankless people in your life,
Then you don’t need self-respect, you need kindness.
“Don’t let the kindness die among people.Â
Have you ever noticed how much better you treat others when you’ve dealt best with yourself? In a pressure-filled ambience, it’s not difficult to work through lunch, work through dinner, and replying queries at 11 pm.
Yet, the world frequently rights itself when we pause for a minute to inhale, survey what we need, and look for it. (Sleep? A relaxed meal, anyone?)
Be thoughtful to yourself when you think about what happens to anyone. Be kind and never make others the target of your aggression or frustration that we truly feel about ourselves.
It can feel great to calm these disturbing feelings from ourselves onto others,
But for how long ?
Everybody has difficulties , many stowed away from sight. By then when we are tolerant, we are seeing our normal human condition.
Compassion can guide us to acts of kindness. Maybe we keep our mouth shut rather than getting down on the bad behavior or abuse someone.
On the other hand we sort out a private chance to ask concerning whether everything is extraordinary. Occasionally, kindheartedness is offering to get coffee, or bringing back a supper from a lunch.
While we might not have control over someone else, we do have power over ourselves. What’s the significance here to be our best selves? Isn’t being kind in the blend of decisions we have every single day?
We can’t make and force any other individual to be humble and caring, but let not the ignorance and rudeness of others stops you to be kind.
No matter what is going on, how is the good or bad another person.
No matter what is going on, how is the good or bad another person.
Always be kind to every kind not only mankind .